Ah, but what is a meal without words of Torah and Judaism to accompany it?
tisch, or table, should be the one to say these words. But the guy’s under enough stress as it is! Thus, the friends and family of the groom interrupt his words with laughter, songs and more — mostly to ease the tension and get everyone in a joyous mood. Yes, this is rude, but hey – all’s fair in love and games!