Am I a Potential Boyfriend or Just a Midnight Call?
Am I a Potential Boyfriend or Just a Midnight Call? Friday September 14, 2007 #spacer{clear:left}#abc #sidebar{margin-top:1.5em}zSB(3,3)Sometimes us gays are so focused on trying to “be” with someone that we lose sight of the fact that we may already be with them. Instead of relishing in the present moments that we spend with someone we’re dating, we fall into the trap of obsessing over what the relationship could be. In order to develop a healthy relationship, both you and your potential mate must both be ready for romance—truly ready. Take time to get to know him before jumping into a heated relationship. Doing so allows you to discover the good (and bad) things you may not have previously seen. So, by the time you are tagged as “boyfriends” you have a bond that is much deeper than the initial trance of first meeting desire. This reader, whom we’ll call Confused, currently has a friend with benefi
