Am i clinging on to the love which is not there anymore?
Ok, well I can somewhat relate. I was with my ex for eight years and there were times where I felt like you did, but then it would pass or so I thought. When we broke up he felt the way you were feeling right now, but instead of telling me he started treating me like crap and cheated on me. It broke my heart into a million pieces and I felt like it was the end of the world and nothing would ever be the same again. But I got over him surprisingly fast so I realized that I didn’t really love him love him, I was just used to him and I was thinking like you, it seemed rediculous to break up. We were supposed to get married but now I realize that if we would’ve gotten married we wouldn’t have been happy and we would’ve eventually gotten divorced. Point is, if your not happy and your unsure, then you don’t love him so you might as well be upfront with him so you can both find the paths that will make you happy. I’m soo much happier now!