An annoying military wife friend HELP?
Stop speaking to her. If she shows up at the door, close it in her face. If she calls, hang up. Then change your number and have it unlisted, OR have her number blocked. If she continues to do any of the above, have her charge with harassment. The MPs won’t be able to help much, since they can only deal with the military members. They refer civilians to the local authorities. You can also get a restraining order placed. Thanks to both you and your husband.