Are women offended when men are visibly excited?
I don’t have a problem with it. My love is polyamorous, and I enjoy seeing him excited, whether by me or by another. Just knowing he is ABLE to enjoy life like that is a pleasure in and of itself. There are so many that cannot enjoy life, or that only get excited by cruelty or violence, that to see him that way over someone he loves, or even just someone he is attracted to, pleases me. A man can be excited without acting on it.