Can fun and outgoing girls be interested in not so fun guys?
Party girls are going to want party guys. Sometimes, both men and women calm down and don’t enjoy partying as much. If you are chasing party girls when you’re more of a homebody, therein lies your problem. Outside of their looks, you probably would find yourself bored with these girls anyway. Look for girls you would enjoy the same lifestyle as. Second, you sound like you have the guts to go for it…so think about how you market yourself. Don’t think of yourself as “not so fun” because, honestly, “boring” is a turn off to girls. “Stable,” “Mature,” “Responsible,” “Educated,” “Ambitous” … all of these are better ways to describe yourself. A girl in the market for a serious relationship rather than a party buddy or arm candy for making the scene will be on the prowl for men who meet these criteria. (Along with your other traits such as kind, caring, etc).