Can I still have all the traditional things like wedding showers, bachelorette parties & bridesmaids luncheons? Can we still register?
A. Absolutely! Someone in your family or a close friend can throw you a shower or a couple’s shower. It’s not against any etiquette rules for someone to throw you a shower or party of some kind. You can still register to make sure you get the things you want and need. Gift giving is about someone wanting to celebrate your wedding and giving you something, not about expecting something in return (like to attend your reception and get a free dinner). If someone is upset because they cannot attend then they don’t have to attend showers hosted for you and they don’t have to buy you a present.
