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Do I have to love sex?

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Do I have to love sex?

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You don’t HAVE TO love anything really. It’s your choice and yours only. I’m telling you this because I used to ask myself this question until I realized that I shouldn’t, cuz it’s totally normal not to.

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Skylar Tamsin

Definitely not. I personally don’t enjoy sex that much (I strongly prefer masturbation). However, I have had partners that definitely changed the way I felt about sex simply because they were so good at it, so who knows? Maybe you just need the right person to show you a good time.

If you’re in a relationship though, and the sex isn’t great or you simply don’t enjoy sex in general, you definitely need to communicate that to your partner. If your partner isn’t the type to want to communicate with you about something you feel you need to talk about (and you definitely should communicate your sexual needs with each other), then they’re probably not a good match for you to begin with.

Everyone needs someone they’re compatible with in many different areas, but sex, I think, is one of the most important, even if your sexual needs are practically nonexistent. You need someone sexually compatible with you in order to have a well-functioning relationship. 

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Loving Sex is only applicable only if you are married! So as to be free from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases! Cheers!

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Chad Stiles

No, like others said, you don’t have to love sex. There are many aspects to an enjoyable and satisfactory relationship, and sex is often thought of as the most important one. However, without all of the other aspects, it’s “just sex” and more than likely, you’re not going to fall in love with “just sex” or even enjoy “just sex.” Find the things that you love doing with your partner and the things that you love about your partner. Also discover what your partner loves doing with you and what he/she loves about you and then love spending time together doing things you LOVE. More than likely, the sex will come when it does, and you’ll more than likely enjoy it, but it’s not the one-and-only ingredient to having a loving relationship that society has made it out to be. I hope that helps!

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Tasha Lachut

No you do not have to love sex. If your in a relationship with someone and they make you feel like you do need to or they want to do it more than you, than maybe they are not the right person for you. You need to be with someone who your comfortable with and that doesn’t pressure you into anything. They need to accept you for you. 

If your asking this in general in order to have a relationship. No, you still do not have to love sex to have a good relationship. I hope this answers your question.

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