Does Heidi Elderman encourage infidelity?
A No, to the contrary, she does not encourage anyone to stray. In fact, if you experience difficulty with your relationship, you should seek professional counselling. However, if you still feel that you will look for a person other than your partner to fulfil your unmet needs and wants, then we truly believe that you should do what you feel is good for you. The focus of society (including the media), friends and family on affairs is always on SEX when 2 people have an affair. In reality an affair is seldom about sex. In fact it is only 10% about sex and the rest is filled with romance, passion and intense emotions. They are also about the desire to feel loved and alive. But also about pain, fear and betrayal…..