How can I trust men again after my dad had an affair?!?
Claire, I am so sorry that a reality of life has bitten into yours. But please understand that trust alone does not make life perfect. Women can be every bit as mis-trusting as men can be, so let’s get past that… I believe in family also, but, like you, I cannot control the lives of others around me and must learn to accept things I cannot change. I personally feel with one belief only of marriage and relationships…”It is every man’s duty to go home to his mate, but it’s his mate’s duty to make him want to go home…!” So you see, Claire, there was some sort of problem happening between your parents and it did not just jump right up and happen suddenly. You must not say one is at fault when actually both parents were at fault. They should have gone for marital counseling instead of just running away from each other…that’s where the biggest mistake was… Then, of course, some couples do fall out of love and find it best to call it quits rather than to stay together “for the sake
