How can I use marriage counseling to rebuild trust with my lying/cheating husband?
If he had recently wrote to this other woman talking about doing coke, he still has a serious addiction and counseling won’t help with that unless he is also enrolled in a program for substance abuse at the same time. Perhaps you need another separation and this time, don’t come back until he proves to you that he is involved in a substance abuse program and over his addictions. It is better to separate and if necessary divorce now while the son is young than to let this drag on to the point that the son learns to be like his father and into drugs as well. Good luck to you!!
