How come men and women are always complaining about married life?
Women can wait a while to get married, and given the gross immaturity of people nowadays, they should wait a while. But biologically speaking, there is a time limit on when a woman can have kids. You won’t hear me complain about marriage. I’ve been married almost five years, and I’ve never been happier. I wanted kids, and I love coming home to my wife and kids. You can be “free from” responsibilities, sure, but that inherently precludes participating in the most beautiful aspects of life.
I don’t complain about it. I may complain about things he does, but that doesn’t mean I’m not happily married. Being married doesn’t mean their are no problems. It means having someone there to work through the problems together. I’m not in a rush to have kids. We plan to start within 5 years, I am 25 now, and I want to be able to chase my kids around the playground. I didn’t need to get married, I wanted to, and I just happened to find a great guy to marry. We are very happy together. If you don’t want to get married, then don’t. P.S. being married has nothing to do with “freedom.” I am not trapped, nor am I not allowed to do things.
