How Do You Make Up With A Friend?
If you’re on the outs with a friend, it’s often hard to be the one to make the first move toward reconciling. If you’re both stubborn, however, nothing will ever get resolved. Here’s how to make up with a friend. Send out feelers via other friends. If you have mutual acquaintances, try to get them to find out if your friend is still upset with you. Is he or she open to being friends again? You may be afraid of being rejected, so if possible try to find out how the other person feels toward you. Pick up the phone. Be the bigger person and make that phone call. It’s hard to be the one to say “I’m sorry” or “”I miss you”; but one of you has to do it. You may be catching the other person off guard. Be prepared for whatever reaction he or she has. Write a note. If making a phone call is too hard for you to handle, write a note to your friend. If it’s near the holiday season, send a Christmas card saying how much you’ve missed this person this year. Send an email. Email can seem impersonal,
