How Do You Stop Being A Nice Guy, Without Being A Jerk, And Get Girls?
The idea that girls like guys who are bad to them is a stereotype. And like all stereotypes, there is SOME truth to it – but not a lot. There is some evidence that if you’re too easy to get and hold on to, then you are easily undervalued. If people were just giving away gold tokens, wouldn’t you wonder what was wrong with them? Perhaps anthropologically, there is an explanation, but I dare say nobody is going to like it here: Men are simple: The want to have sex with as many different women as possible as this increases the probability of the guy’s genes being passed down from generation to generation. Women are more complex because they end up “off the market” for more than 9 months – so they want a guy that will help them take care of the kid. HOWEVER, they also want their kid to have sex with as many people as possible to pass on their genes to the next generation. So, girls like “bad boys” for sex because their children are more likely to be bad boys etc. but want to marry good guy
