How long do u date before proposing?
If you do not understand his reasoning, ask him to explain. You have a right to know why you are waiting as well. On one hand, there is no need to rush things. On the other hand, with this being a long distance relationship, I wonder. Without knowing more, I would have to say…you are starting to have doubts about where this relationship is going and you need to express those feelings to your man. When he tells you he has faith and patience in your love, well then you have two options. Either you agree and keep going on the same track, or you tell him your patience has worn thin and you need to know where the love stands on his list of priorities. Be aware that if you push that you may lose this person! In which if that happens, he did not have much patience or faith as he claimed and has been playing you. You can wait until the cows come home. There is no set time. If you want to wait for him you do that. If that is his real answer for not getting married, then he is just blowing smo
It sounds like you started dating pretty young. He may want to save up some more money, or have some other reason. You don’t say how old you are. But you just finished college I would give it some more time. Maybe a year or so longer. But if you think he is stringing you along. If you think you might be wasting your time in the relationship then tell him now you don’t mind waiting for marriage but you need to know where this relationship is going. Communication is the key to a good marriage so you should be able to talk to him about this. He might just need some more time on his own though. Edit: Okay, so your both of a pretty good age. I would be open and honest and ask him to explain what he means by having patience. Tell him you need to know where this relationship is going, you don’t want to pressure him but you’ve been in this relationship a long time and feel like it’s time to consider moving forward. You could get a job in the area and move there on your own, that way you could
He is probably not ready to get married. I don’t think there is a definite number to wait before proposing. I met my boyfriend 3 months ago (long -distance), but we both want a family and kids early, so I’m moving to where he is next year. What he said that “thing will work out in the end” just tells that he wants some more freedom, and he doesn’t love you enough to get married.
