I want to remain single forever, is that a problem?
Very interesting…and some parts of your question are actually amusing….by which I mean that I see some of myself 25 years ago in your comments. Some minor differences between us however include…by the time I turned 26 I had finished college, earned my commission as a US Army officer leading combat troops, completed my MBA in finance, run 2 marathons & logged over 250 hours SCUBA diving (like you I like to keep in good physical shape) and working full time in management with a Fortune 500 company. And prior to age 26 I had purchased my 1st home in San Diego and traveled to 4 different countries among a few other things. However, I don’t consider myself handsome or extremely attractive…but at best a little better than average in looks. Yes, my physique was above average since I lifted weights (3x a week…not every day) in addition to running. Even my male friends would comment….”How to you seem to meet and go out with so many intelligent and very attractive women…heck, I’m b
It’s not a problem at all! You should remain single so you can continue your lifestyle and remain free of breaking and commitments/promises or having to lie constantly. People get married so they won’t grow old alone. They have kids for the same reason. There may be someone out there for you or maybe not – only time will tell.
Is it a problem? I guess not, for now, anyway. It’s sad to me, what you’re doing, and you see no problem with it. You see yourself as an attractive, successful man who can have whatever he wants. You may someday find that emotionally, you’re empty inside. All these meaningless sexual encounters, they feel good physically, but do you ever connect with anyone (not just women, but anyone) on an emotional level? Do you ever do anything that benefits anyone else, or is it all just about your penis, your money, your ego? (I’m not asking if you’re a good lover, by the way.) Most people, most decent people anyway, at some point understand that their life’s greatest value comes from the quality of their relationships, and I’m not just talking about romantic or sexual relationships. So, all this being said, I find you very sad. At some point you may wish you had cultivated some deeper connections with other human beings. But you’re so damn selfish, I really hope you never get married or have chi
