Is it bad to get married with the guy you like when u still love ur ex?

Speaking as someone who got married last year to the love of his life only to find out that my wife was having an affair with her ex that she started a month before our wedding I would say that it's defnitly the wrong thing to do. I've been sucidal over it for the last year. My wife put me through the wedding and everything and I was only 2 months into our marriage when I found out about the affair and we had been together for 5 years. Don't get married if you still love your ex and just like your boyfriend. You sound mixed up and confused to me actually. You can't have your cake and eat it to. Get to therapy and figure out what to do and by all means you are not in the right place to get married. Figure out what your feelings for your ex are really about. Is it just cold feet? Is it something missing in your relationship with your current boyfriend? You at least owe your commitment to you current boyfriend if you are in a realtionship with him and you need to cut off contact with ...  more