Is “Style” what is people are referring to when they use the cliche “stay within yourself?”
Yes. Style is the single most critical measure. Most people, however, seem to think “within yourself” refers to something about the assertiveness of life and not “over-doing it, or within some vague set of parameters having to do with your emotions. Style is found to be the basic dimension. Everything else pertaining to how we think, feel, act and strive is either secondary or peripheral.