Many people seem to have affairs. Can they be helpful in unhappy marriages ?
Helpful? Not by intention. Perhaps spending time with another human being can remove the rose colored glasses about how wonderful someone else will be…but no. Even relationships that seem hopeless are still committed. And too many will take the route that if it might helps thing darn it, well I’ll FORCE myself. No dear…that’s rationalizing a course of action that can lead to disaster. What you usually see after an affair is either a quick divorce, or a hurt and furious spouse who will spend the rest of your life reminding you of your mistake. The smart money says save the existing relationship if possible, or leave. The heart break you save could be your own.