Once Ive withdrawn my money, is that contribution room lost?
No, you never lose your contribution room in fact, you can recontribute amounts you have withdrawn. You have to wait until the next year to recontribute, but you can carry forward the recontribution room indefinitely. For example, say you contribute $5,000 to your TFSA in January 2009 and another $5,000 in January 2010. Then, in the summer of 2010, you withdraw $3,000 to pay for some repairs to your home. You cant recontribute that $3,000 in 2010, but in 2011 it will be added to your contribution room again, meaning you could contribute up to $8,000 in 2011.