Should i let this woman babysit my best mates child after what I found out about her?
It’s really nice of you to be so concerned. However, it’s not your responsibility to find a babysitter for your friend. They should have the child care lined up before they make plans to go away. I personally would not let someone that advertises for sex on the internet take care of my children. But then, I wouldn’t let anyone whom I did not personally know and trust take care of my kids. It’s easy to sound nice and friendly over the phone. To make this easiest for the child, she should be watched at her own home and sleep in her own bed. So if you wanted to watch her, you should cancel your plans for the weekend. Again, I think it’s really great that you’re so concerned about finding childcare for your friend. I think your friend needs to be more involved in finding a babysitter for the child. Just tell your friend that you’re sorry but you haven’t been able to find anyone to watch her.
I think in your heart you already know the answer and that is definitely NOT. Whilst you should never be judgemental and everyone is entitled do live their life the way they wish it is not the type of environment that you could subject a little child to. The girl may be wonderful looking after a child but with children they can never be left with anyone you have the slightest doubt about. Sadly, there is so much child abuse these days, often from the people you think the most unlikely and a 3 yr. old is especially vulnerable. You must tell the parents what you know and at the end of the day it is their decision, not yours. However, I personally cannot think of any parent that would be willing to take such a chance.