Should I stop taking birth control pills with out my fiancees knowledge?
if you stop taking your birth control just to make sure that he has to stay around all you are doing is asking for more trouble. If your relationship is going sore than be mature about it and try and fix it the normal right way, talking things through and making a commitment to change. He will only be upset if you end up pregnant and than if in the future he finds out you were the one who actually planned that he will leave you anyway. Don’t stop your birth control for your own selfish reason. It’s the wrong thing to do.
