Should my friend marry the woman he loves or be with the woman he is in love with?
He needs to be honest with the woman he is marrying. She needs to know who he really is, and how he really feels BEFORE they get married or this could go downhill REALLY fast! Far better for a high profile person to call off a wedding because they didn’t feel the right things, then to get a divorce because their wife found out they’re a member of a dating site and had an affair before they got married. He needs to be honest and then they need to work out between themselves, what they want to do from there. That said it wouldn’t really be fair on either of them to still get married if he’s feeling like that. He really should tell her how he feels and end it…
I think that your friend should not get married to his fiance. He can still be there for her and be a best friend without getting married. What high profile role could he possibly have that won’t allow him to make his own major life decisions? If he doesn’t go through with the wedding, it will impact both of their families? Well guess what – let it impact the families. This is your friend’s life you’re talking about, not their families. Not getting married could possibly be the best thing he could do for everyone involved. It sounds like your friend really cares for his fiance and wants to avoid hurting her. But if he’s honest with himself, he knows that he could still be best friends with this woman and not marry her until his thoughts are more clear. Maybe he could talk to his fiance and tell her honestly that he needs more sex and that he’s not complete with the way things are. It’s hard to tell from your post whether he just needs more and better sex from his fiance, or if he just
