To men: why men say they will call and don call in the end…?
There are several possible explanations. One is that guys often “romance” a female just to see if they can do it, if she’ll fall for their line, or to demonstrate to a buddy they can get your phone number. To some, they may have meant to call but changed their mind. ALWAYS require proof of intentions, respect, and a demonstration that a person will do what they say they’ll do before you let them into your life. Another way of saying that is to develop a healthy attitude of distrust without evidence. Think of what folks say to you as sales pitches.
In general, we’re imperfect creatures. There are a few reasons that the call never comes: 1. We lose the number. Rather than go back where we met you and wait for you to show up (a romantic notion), we cut our losses and move on. 2. We’re not as interested as you perceived. “I’ll call you” is a reflex, we say it as a distraction to leave a conversation without hurting you. Would you rather hear “I’ll call you” or “I’m never going to call”? Exactly. 3. In some cases, a better offer comes along. All attraction begins with the physical. Its entirely possible that we meet someone as good looking as you, but we just connect more with them. If we find someone that is more likely to be a soulmate, why would we waste our time, or yours? 4. In very rare cases, we forget. We have jobs, and lives, and we get busy, just like you. After we realize, I was supposed to call 4 days ago, its too late now. Cut your losses and move on. Good luck. And sorry for all the times that it may have been me doing
