What if my child is resisting selecting or being pigeon-holed into one calling area from which to build a growth plan?
I have encountered this on numerous occasions. Those with a Perceiver personality preference love to keep all their options open and firmly resist feeling “boxed in” in any single area. I have also found that those with the personality preference of Judger are so efficient and time conscious, that they don’t want to waste any time going in the wrong direction or pursuing a dead end rabbit trail and may take extra time trying to discern the “one right path” they think they must take to get where they want to be. As a parent, you must encourage a Perceiver that they are learning an invaluable process that will apply to any future pursuit they may choose to explore. The Cultivate Your Calling philosophy is about learning how to learn and adapting to new situations and opportunities as God allows them into our lives with an emphasis on continual personal evaluation and adjustment. Develop in your child a heightened awareness of how God uses all that he has created in them and the experienc
