What is a Eulogy?

A eulogy is a short piece of writing used to acknowledge a person who has died and to remember them in a special way. These tributes to the deceased are typically read at funerals. They provide information about the person, usually in a positive light, and help bring closure to the process of death and dying. The presentation is usually about three minutes long and does not have to be depressing. In fact, it should not be depressing. This isn’t a persuasive speech, you’re not selling anything here. Don’t expect to wipe away everyone’s tears - respect the fact that the departed will be missed, no matter how eloquent your eulogy is. What a Eulogy is Not A eulogy is not a poem. That’s an elegy. “Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard,” by Thomas Gray is an example of such a lament, or mournful poem. Such lines as “The curfew tolls the knell of parting day” are better inscribed on tombstones that related verbally to an audience. This is a funeral, not a coffeehouse poetry slam. Example ...  more

A eulogy is somewhat like a personalized speech. It is given at a funeral as a testimonial to the life of the deceased. It is usually given by a relative or a close personal friend of the person who passed away. The eulogy is a way to share details and fond memories of a loved one that other people may not be aware of, or that they may find comforting. Giving a eulogy can be very difficult, since emotions are high when a loved one passes on. It is perfectly acceptable to write the eulogy yourself and ask someone else to read it for you. This is a good idea if you were especially close to the deceased and do not feel you will be able to speak. On the other hand, people expect raw emotion at such a difficult time, and will certainly understand. This being the case, if you feel it is important that you give the eulogy personally, do not be embarrassed about showing emotion while delivering your speech. It is a good idea to prepare the eulogy ahead of time, and to write down what you ...  more

A eulogy is a speech given at a funeral that praises and celebrates the life of the deceased. Often the eulogy is written and delivered by a close friend or family member and gives details of the deceased's life and death. The speech usually contains anecdotes and the speaker's fond memories. A eulogy is a way for mourners to hear about how their loved one was appreciated by other people. It is a way to make peace with the death and to share grief.  more