What is avoidant personality disorder? How do I know if someone has it?
Hi Faith, The leading UK mental health charity MIND states that Avoidant (or anxious) personality disorder is thus; Feeling inadequate or inferior to other people, and avoiding work or other social activities, is one sign of avoidant personality disorder. You expect disapproval and criticism, and you worry constantly about being ‘found out’ and rejected. You may be particularly worried about being ridiculed or shamed by others, so you avoid social relationships, friendships and intimacy. However, you feel lonely and isolated, and long to have the very relationships you avoid. It’s hard for others to understand the extent of your worries and not to believe you’re exaggerating your fear of ordinary social situations. They will see you as a loner. This is a fairly accurate description of someone with this personality trait. Whilst this is not an illness in itself and should never be considered so, it can indeed lead to depression and further anxieties. The best form of treatment available