What is the best fighting style for me to learn?
There is no best style. Most people will tell you there style is the best or they heard such and such is a great style, The style is not important, what matters is how good your instructor is and how you train. The style is secondary, they all have there pro’s and con’s there are no superior styles. If you have an instructor that can’t teach you how to fight, regardless of the style, what good would it do you? Choose a school with a good instructor in the end that’s all that matters, that and how you train. Its the person that has the ability to fight not the style If there was a best style every military and police academy would be using the same one as it stands they each have there own or use different ones. Your size has nothing to do with the style you want to choose.