What is the best way to save a failing longterm relationship?
The two of you need to sit down together somewhere and just talk to each other. The best place is a quiet restaurant, at home it’s too easy to get up and walk away but at a restaurant you can sit there and talk. Be positive! You are still in love with each other and you need to start by talking about that. Talk about the things the two of you did together when you first started seeing each other. Set up “date nights” together. Pick a day and plan on going out on a date with each other again! Too many times couples fall into ruts and just start to take each other for granted. Try to put some of that spark back into things by doing some of the things you used to do. If you both are willing to talk and stay positive, good things will come from this and your relationship will start back up in the right direction.
