What is the biggest red flag on a first date that someone is going to be a problematic boyfriend or girlfriend?
Some of the biggest red flags are those who act desperate, those who show possessiveness and those who want a committed relationship without even knowing you. They want to rush into everything. Many times later on down the road, these are the types of people who are overly jealous and can become physically and verbally abusive. Proceed with caution, or better yet don’t proceed at all!
First, you shouldn’t date unless you know that person is the one God chose you to marry. It won’t be love at first sight either. It’s of the Spirit. Second, you should chaperone. In other words, if you are a minor under 18, go with your parents. Otherwise, you shouldn’t date at all. That’s not how God wants you to choose the person you want to marry.
One of the biggest red flags is a date who is rude to a waitress or anyone in customer service.Pay attention to how he or she treats people who are of no use to them or future value.If they are unnecessarily rude you are looking at their future treatment of you and other people in your life who are important to you.They are most likely charming you as at present you represent a particular value to them.Character is one thing and personality is another. A major red flag is someone who lacks character but oozes charm .