What should i do about my verbally abusive husband?
Youre not necessarily in love with or even love him, but hes been like a “security” blanket for you so long, leaving him would be like losing a part of you. But its this “security” blanket that youre afraid of losing so you stay and put up with him. His blaming his Dads death is only a pretty lame excuse, at best, for his actions now, but it does make for a somewhat believable excuse for anyone not understanding the whole situation. Going to your parents is only a “backdoor” attempt to get you back as everything else hes trying is failing. He only has himself to blame for everything thats happening here. Counseling miracles wont and dont happen overnight but he must remember his problem didnt just happen overnight either. What you do now is totally up to you but you only have 2 options here at best, leave and start anew or stay and put upwith his abusive ways. Without professional help, there is a very little chance he will get better on his own so I would advice to cut your losses and
To be honest with you, I think that there is no love. I know that many of us love differently but if he did love you he would have stuck with the therapy or the anger management because he would do it out of love for you. I personally think there is no love from you to him anymore because if there were any then you would not be able to stand one day without him in your bed or by your side doing everyday things. Do nto be worried, many of us go through divorce and it does not have to be bad or painful. I had an easy one which I know does not happen often but truthfully you have got to think about yourself in the long run. I would not stick around and start thinking about your future, if there is no kids then the split up should be easy and not so lenghty. If let’s say he does not want a drivorce and will not sign papers, check his patience and do not get divorce but start living your own life, he will come around eventually. After having marriage like this one with a husband like this y
