What types are INFJs most compatible with?
It’s been generally agreed on that there is no such thing as an ideal “best match” in terms of MBTI type, and rightly so: “You fall in love with a person, not a type” (thanks for this one, Katie). While it’s probably true that certain types are less agreeable when paired off than with others, it all comes down to the two unique individuals and the special bond they create. David Keirsey suggests in his book Please Understand Me (known simply as PUM) the “opposites attract” theory, which would mean an INFJ/ESTP or INFJ/ENTP pairing, though studies and the experience of list-members shows that there generally doesn’t seem to be any particular pattern. In his later work Portraits of Temperament (POT), Keirsey suggests a _NFJ and _NTP pairing. In both POT and PUM2, Keirsey proposes that NTs and NFs belong together as they complement each other. Type and temperament can be very powerful tools to use when trying to understand and analyze a relationship – and INFJs tend to do that a lot! Know
