Where does the stereotype come from that all feminists abhor housewives?
Because feminists have made negative comments about housewives most won’t say all but then the people in the leadership of feminism are the ones who make these comments. Example: It’s like a president and those working with him/her (maybe one day) say they hate France, sure not all Americans hate France but he speaks for your country and France would not take that well. It’s not any old feminist saying it is those in power within that organisation saying it and that makes a big difference.