Which part of the wedding vows is most important?
nothing about the wedding is important except for the paper part and the ring part, that is for others to see – this is MINE! So, we avoid confusions with others. They KNOW we are taken. (Unless you marry without love, then nothing matters, not even the ring or the paper, your soul says – i am not taken – whatever the paper or the ring says). The only thing important, the most important to feel deep deep deep deep WE ARE HOME. The search is over. And the other person feels the same. First, wants to be home, the home is the most valuable thing for them and feels that YOU are that home….Hm….does it exist at all, such perfect combination of the deepest emotions and commitment, but not out of desperation and ignorance but knowledge and awareness of yourself and the other…. that IS love, and that is TO BE MARRIED and that is THE VOW…nothing else and nothing less.
