Who is on the fence about having or not children?
I am. It’s a huge responsibility raising children and the way everyone behaves in this generation is a huge put off for me. I’m young, but I don’t remember growing up as a brat and thinking that everything is handed to me on a plate like they seem to expect now. I also don’t want to raise my children so differently from the rest that they feel like the odd one out, that’s how I feel now. I find it hard to find people on the same level as me and with the same parenting ideas, for example, spanking – it never hurt me but now it’s practically forbidden, also all these kids writing on here that they think they are pregnant ! I would have been terrified to have sex at 12 and 13 years old, and then end up pregnant !. I would love children, but want to raise a good person, not a spoiled brat.