Why can people admit when they e wrong?
Some people are just flat out stubborn, and they won’t admit to being wrong no matter what. But there are also some people who don’t realize that what they did was wrong. They could have possibly thought that they were just giving you an honest “friend to friend” comment. Sometimes you just can’t get an apology from someone. You just have to let it go and move on.
Not only is she wrong but she is so RUDE. How dare she say such things her or her friend. Church should be a place where we go to worship god and continue to grow spiritually. We are there for God not to try to get a husband or compete to who can dress better. Ugh this just makes me mad! Please be smart enough to ignore her. She must not know anything about God if she believes god will only bless “nice dressed people”. Not everyone can afford nice things but that doesn’t make them any less of a person. As a Christian I would say to turn the other cheek. Ignore her and her crazy friend. Perhaps talk to the Pastor and let him/her know how you are feeling like an outcast. Maybe you could work out your problems or maybe even go to another church if things do not improve at all. Its not good to be that Miserable. Now as a regular human being I would say: You give that girl a piece of your mind! haha okay don’t cuss her out or anything but You tell her that she did say so but you forgive her
Please tell your friend that she is wrong. God does not judge. He loves everyone and that opinionated people shouldn’t judge others in the name of God. That is very sinful. Remind her that her behavior is sinful. God forgives people and he will forgive her for saying nasty things. Bless her in front of others, and tell her you pray that God helps people in small ways. That will annoy her more than the way you dress.
Some people are just petty and hurtful. Sounds like she has her own insecurities, and is trying to take focus off of herself by pointing fingers at you. (Thou shall not pass judgement.) Meanwhile, you need to see a doctor about this eating disorder. It is not ok to allow yourself to be controlled by what other people. It is obviously damaging your health. First step is admitting you have a problem and getting to a health care professional for assistance in beating this problem. Good luck and just try to stick to what you know is right!
Don’t listen to her.. God doesn’t play favorites. Whatever problem she has with you isn’t your fault – it’s her problem. Don’t worry about your weight – you shouldn’t have to change yourself just to satisfy others. It isn’t about what people think of you, it’s about what you think of you and what God thinks of you. God loves you, you’re his child – a daughter of The King. Let’s face it, no one likes to admit they’re wrong, especially in a matter (like this one) where it will make them look like insecure fools if they do. I hope this helps. I’m praying for you!
