Why do 2 year olds have tantrums?
They find it frustrating that their verbal skills are not good enough to convey to you exactly what they want. When you ask them to repeat themselves, they get frustrated and upset that you don’t appear to understand them. They also have limited ability to rationalise. So, whereas you may say “no” to a toy that they want, because you are overrun with them at home, it appears to them that you are denying them an immediate “need” that they have. All children are different, and will respond differently to how you handle the situation. Some children will respond to a disciplined “no”, some respond better to a gentle diversionary tactic. You know your own child best. Use whatever method works, whether it be ignoring the tantrum, loving them through it, promising a treat when they are over the upset or whatever. Unfortunately, there will always be people who will tut loudly or comment on your child’s bad behaviour. They are best ignored. You know that your child isn’t badly behaved. After al
