Why do guys shy away from single mothers? Do they think we e unattractive because we have children?
There are several answers: 1) They are not into kids 2) If they want kids & start a family, they want it to be one of their own 3) They know they will be #2 in the woman’s life 4) they are too much a child themself 5) It takes away from the courting rituals 6) too much drama 7) They are not looking to settle down & they know that single mothers are not looking for a “boyfriend” 8) They don;t want to have to deal with the kid’s real father The list goes on & on, but that’s what comes to mind instantly
thanx 4 this question, i don’t think its just guys, its girls too…and i mean this in two ways…1) one day i lookd around and noticed that a couple of good girlfriends of mine werent so good & close to me anymore, and after some analyzing, i realize its partly (or mostly) to do w their kids…no more last minute vegas trips, no more last minute happy hour, no more ie just-come-over-for-girl-talk-n-a-movie nights, and FORGET about going 2 a (quiet) museum…they just don’t hav the time for these type of things and of course their priorities in life change…gotta respect that. 2) As far as guys, i’m a single woman and also shy away from men who have children, just a fling is ok. I’ve seen whats involved with men who have children and don’t want to be involved in that type of thing (mostly negative from what i’ve seen personally). i won’t be having any children and can’t imagine having to deal with someone else’s…..a guy i went out with recently told me that i’m kidding myself if i t
