Why do i constantly question my relationship with my current boyfriend?
This is the time in your life when, whether you know it or not, you’re looking for a “mate.” It’s inherent. You are at your prime physically and mentally, and at this point, you want to make sure you have the “best of the best” for your love and future. I think you question your relationship sometimes for this fact~ you know that he’s changed, but you want to make sure he didn’t just do it for the duration of your relationship- that he had changed for good, and for his good. At this point, I think it’s just nerves, and the want for perfection on your part (you come off a little picky, lol)(but that can be a good thing). However, if you begin to question it unceasingly, you need to consider if you’re just hurting the both of you by staying together. Think about it! Good luck!
Penny, Based on the background provided, I have a few observations. First, you may be feeling some guilt over your original actions in breaking up with this boyfriend. That is normal, but left unresolved it WILL poison your relationship. Communicating with him may help iron out the uncertainties both of you are feeling – and I can almost guarantee he has his own questions or challenges on this matter as well. Second, the ability to remain at peace in a relationship is a product of maturity. This is more than an emotional and mental maturity, it also refers to a mature understanding of the nature of relationships and the role played in our lives. Most people derive some of their self-esteem from the value felt in a relationship. If that is imbalanced in your life, this relationship is already unhealthy, and that will make resolving these tensions all the more difficult. Not impossible, but certainly difficult. I recommend spacing yourself for a time to contemplate or meditate on the sta
