Why do men like to play with themselves?
You answered this yourself when you said… “Then I go into our bedroom like 10 minutes later to get my laundry ” LAUNDRY…… !!!!!!!! If you had said to him….. “I’ll be back to get what I wanted last night” he may have warmed it up a bit, but he would have been waiting for you nonetheless. LAUNDRY…. oh ffs… And people wonder why men cheat on their wives. If you want it then tell him so – don’t do the laundry… get it dirty instead.
