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Why do people(especially women) look down on men who want to have an obedient wife?

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Why do people(especially women) look down on men who want to have an obedient wife?

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First of all if you are looking for a wife to engage in an alternative lifestyle you most certainly can find those (especially on the internet). Obedient isn’t a word a lot of women would want to call or consider themselves in the year 2008. Some could, would and do call themselves submissive…Yet that is totally different than “Obedient” as you so eloquently put it. If you are seriously looking for an obedient wife then I suggest you look in the phone book under counselors. There you may find someone that can work with you on your outlook…and possibly help you if you are really looking for an obedient wife… A wife is a partner, equal in all aspects of your life together and your marriage. Obedience went out with June Cleaver. Personally, for your sake I hope you have mistakenly misworded your question and are looking for a submissive. Otherwise, you are clearly delusional.

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Probably because the men that want that are not obedient husbands. A marriage is a partnership and not an ownership. A man gets what he gives in life and if he gives good then his wife usually does things with the best intrest of her husband in mind. To love a woman means not to rule her but to treat her as gental as a bird in your hand so that she does not desire to fly away. Marriage is a gift that two people give to one another no matter what they face in life together.It is built on trust and understanding and still being free to express oneself while the other is lifting them up and not down. One spouse cannot run a marriage like a dictator but communicates his personal needs that the other understands to satisfy because they do it out of love for you and that is all. It is in setting up the relationship in truth and honesty and being there and doing things because it comes from the desire of the heart. One cannot dominate the other for anything good to come out of that relationsh

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Not all women do. You need to look around until you find the right woman. You also need to bear in mind that if you are going to expect your wife to be obedient you need to treat her with great consideration. You need to listen to her and consider her needs as well as your own. Remember, the Biblical passage that urges wives to submit to their husbands goes on “husbands, love your wives as yourselves”. One of the comments above mentioned being a stay-at-home wife, and I think that is something you would need to consider, as if you are thinking in terms of a stay-at-home wife you would need to make sure that both of you want the same things. Plenty of women who are in relationships where they obey their husbands are career women, and plenty of stay-at-home wives are not obedient at all. That is something you would need to be careful about, a woman who wants to be a stay-at-home wife may not be thinking of it in terms of obedience at all, and a woman who has a high-powered career may yea

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Women look down on men who want an obedient wife because they are scared. There was a time where women did not have so much freedom or the option to choose the life that they wanted to live (weather it be a feminist or submissive lifestyle). And now women are afraid that if they give a bit, they will loose everything. Sort of the “give an inch and they’ll take a mile” line of thought. I myself, have chosen to be a submissive wife and to obey my husband. I see it as a funny paradox in that, while women want the freedom to choose the kind of life that they want to live, they also chastise submissive women (like me) for choosing the life that they have. I guess, according to the feminists, you can choose only as long as you choose a lifestyle that they are ok with. Dictatorship anyone?

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