Why do some men try to emotionally control women?
Most men try to control women because of their own insecurities, or because they watched their father treat their mom or even all women that way. There are many reasons why a man might try and control a woman but whatever the reason may be, it should never be a reason that’s worth trying to understand from anyone dealing with that kind of relationship. If a man doesn’t feel good about himself and he has insecurities, he will try and make you feel the same way he does about himself. It’s not always done to intentionally hurt you but never for a second think that a mans control over a woman is because they love you. you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
For the same reason women want to control men. Control comes from insecurity, frustrations or education. Suspicion , aggression , jealousy are forms of desire for control.The dynamics between men and women changed over time, and relationship roles are not as clear and different they were. Dominant person is trying to validate their superiority judgement, statute. It depends only on us not allow ourselves unbalanced by others.