Why do some people not value marriage?
You don’t love someone when you can cheat on them plain and simple If you love them you wont do that I think the main issue is that relationships and marriages are treated like disposable items these days there’s no such thing as working things out anymore Most need a reality check if they thought marriage was gonna be perfect and the end to all problems it’s called take a reality pill every relationship is going to go through it’s problems It’s called you communicate and you work things out
These people who dont value their marriages are weak & ususally come from broken familys themselves, nine times out of ten people who seek out attention & sex from someone other then their spouses are people who have personally witnessed or lived in a family of distruction & drama, they saw mom & dad split up or mom & dad fight or cheating or alcoholism etc, we are all products from our youth, so when we grow up & get out into the real world if we dont have the right tools & we were not taught right from wrong we in turn make the same bad mistakes our own familys did. Kids who grow up in stable familys usually end up growing up & having a stable functioning family, but children who come from disfunction carry the disfunction into their adulthood. And this is why it is so important that people who are preparing to have children or have a child right now must stop and think about who they are having their child by, alot of young girls today just sleep with a guy they hardly know & in tur
It’s a fact of life … men usually think with parts of their body other than the brain … women always know what men are thinking so it’s a vicious circle. People do take their partners for granted after a time so the other one is likely to look for excitement away from the routine. I know, I’m married and I did just that … I didn’t think about the consequences and probably wouldn’t again if the same woman came back to me for another affair. When I confessed, I was lucky enough to be forgiven (eventually) but it’s been a long, hard road.
well not every1 in this world is a good person,some will cheat and some dont understand the word LOVE….if a person cheats then you cant do anything about it,apart from leave them and think that its their loss and they are the ones who will end up with nothing…people should think what marriage means before they do it,take as long as you want and decide if your going to stay faithful and could you possibly be with one person for the rest of your life without cheating on them. its an important subject that needs alot of thought.
Marriage is not for all, but those who take on this way of life seriously should be for better or worse. But today we have to many free minded spirits that thrive on breaking up some marriages. One must realize that sex is not the most important issue in marriage, it takes love compassion, dedication, understanding, forgiving, being able to talk things out before it gets out of control with anger. Money is a big issue bit we must learn to live with what we earn, not with what we spend over our heads. Last is love one must know the difference between love & infactuation.
