Why do waitress (waitors) do these annoying things?
I put things on the table first as its annoying when you bring the plate dish coffee whatever with full intention of getting, sugar, condiment finger bowl, whatever, you just don’t have the hands to carry that much and the customer sometimes asks or sometimes snaps to get what you are just about to. When you put things on the table first, bread for soup as an example, often you’ll be snapped at that the customer didn’t order that as if your trying to get more on their bill.