Why is it very difficult for a 42yrs old gay black man looking for relationship to find one.?
Most likely, you’re searching in all the wrong places. It’s no different from being a 42 year old straight black man looking for a relationship. However, I guess with all the homosexuality issues that exist, it would be a bit harder. If you can’t find any suitable homosexual hangouts in your area (such as gay bars, etc.), then I think your best bet would be to turn to the Internet. Better yet, just re-ask this question in the “Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transexuals” forum of Yahoo! Answers. I know not of how to find it, however. But I think you’ll get a lot more useful answers than in this category, as most of the users here are teenage kids trying to find out if someone likes them. Sorry I couldn’t have been more help. Good luck with the hunt.