How can someone spend 20,000 dollars on a wedding and still make the groomsmen pay for their own tuxedo rental?
Omg I spend less money on my exotic wedding in another country ( Gili Islands, http://7.agency/destination/bali/package/gili-islands-wedding ), I don’t know how people spend such budgets on ceremonies, I could live more than a year on these money.
The average cost of a wedding, with traditional sharing of expenses such as this, is $30,000 in the U.S. today. The venu, the caterer, the music, the bar, the church, the minister, the dress, the attendant gifts, etc. all add up quickly. Traditionally, when you agree to be an attendant for a wedding, you are agreeing to the expenses you will have such as tux rental, travel, shoes, haircut, wedding gift, etc. If you can’t afford this, you should never agree to do this. Just be glad that it’s not a maid-of-honor or bridesmaid that you’re dealing with as the expenses get to be even more with buying a dress to the tune of several hundred dollars, hairstyling, etc.