How Does She Work with Partners?
A good professional labor coach will work with your partner, not against him. She will probably have met with you and your partner before the birth to determine how much your partner wants to be a part of the birth. She may offer your partner suggestions on ways to help, if he wants to help. During the birth, she will remind your partner to eat, rest, and take restroom breaks. Her job is to support not only you but your partner as well. A good doula does not replace the partner. She cannot share the love or connection you two share. Your partner will show his love and give his strength to you during your labor. Your professional labor coach cannot do this, nor should she try.
