Im having a hard time with my own feelings, especially when I think about giving up my baby – sad and scared both. Do other mothers feel that way?
Yes – Always. We don’t think you would be human without these feelings. If you wish, we can set up an appointment for you to meet another Birthmother who has placed her child for adoption. Important decisions are often hard decisions. But when you look first at what’s best for your child, and THEN what’s best for you, it will help you clear away the confusion and make the right decisions. Adoption is the most unselfish decision you could make for your child. In adoption your child’s happiness and welfare comes first – As a Birthmother your pain and grief should come second.
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