Each individual brings their own personal history and individual outlook on life to the relationship and they oftentimes do not match that of the significant other. Those differences do not mean that the relationship is doomed. Contrarily, differences can often be viewed as complementary (opposites attract theory). Those differences can also aid in the understanding of opposing viewpoints. However, differences you once found charming or interesting may now get under your skin. These differences can sometimes cause severe problems to develop such as extramarital affairs, communication difficulties, and feelings of loneliness or isolation. Relationship problems can cause serious stress, hopelessness, worry, jealousy, and fear. Some may think that these problems will go away on their own. Left to fester, those problems will only continue to deteriorate the relationship and may eventually cause severe physical and psychological issues such as depression and anxiety. Couples counseling can