Why is she feeling sore and irritated?
She may just be sore getting back into the swing of things after 3 months. But soreness and certainly pain related to sex should never be ignored – it’s there to tell you something’s wrong. For peace of mind she should visit her doctor, alone or with you. The doctor may advise an STI test, or perhaps something else, but they will know best. (NB, she can ask to see a female doc if she’s more comfortable with that). Her doctor will be able to answer better than any guesses on here. But don’t ignore it as any minor problem left untreated could cause more serious long term damage. Also try this website: http://www.channel4embarrassingillnesses… If nothing else it may explain why it’s so important to get regularly checked. NHS direct website have a health encyclopedia and a questionnaire which may help pin point her symptoms. In the end, it’s probably nothing, but always best to check it out.
